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The End has Come

The closing of any date can either be a giant relief or a hormonal surge that forces you to have three more cups of coffee than you would ever dream of, and leave your voice as tired as a handkerchief headband. This elation is the chemical response our bodies put us through in order for us to perk up and pay attention to a potential mate. I have two words of warning for how you handle your phenyl ethylamine and dopamine drenched mind. The first is that you pace yourself, it is by far better to end more on the early side that it is to let it drag on to the point where you have both worn out your welcomes. You want to still have an element of mystery and anticipation surrounding the second date, and having the first date end in a place of both of you wanting more will increase your chance for that pre-second-date-tingle. The second word of advice would be to not become addicted to that very early feeling and deem it the only sensation emitted from true love. Your sensation, even with the purest and greatest loves, will shift and not always feel like the one on the first three dates. An excellent point to keep in mind is that the maturing of emotion does not mean passion or has to fade. If done correctly it is quite the opposite.

If you are experiencing this first date elation and have a strong feeling that your date is too, and that ending time is nearing closer, it is time to break the date number two question. Keep it casual, light, and prefaced with how much you enjoyed this first date and would to see them again. When it really is in the last moment of this fabulous date, and your virtues allow, go for it...the kiss that is. Some soulful making-out is the cherry on top of this dream date sundae. When your tongues are both back in their respective mouths and in your homes, it is a great idea to give a brief follow-up call, or email, or text message to let them know that you're home, and make sure that they are safe and the same.

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