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 Speaking of FlirtingIt should be fun, light, and just this side of being tempting. Flirting takes birth in the eyes and radiates the rest of the body accordingly. So make warm, sincere eye contact and lean in slightly with a relaxed stance toward your date to emphasize your interest in them as people. Be careful of smirking, however. This sneer half leer is just plain frightening, and anything but sincere. It screams, I'm creepy, and not to be trusted. If your eye contact wonders too often, that can also be a signal of mistrust. Flirting is a simple a matter of being kind, giving of your attention, and having fun. Don't over think it. Remember, you don't have to try as hard as you think, you have a natural flirt that comes out that is tailored to your personality. There are certain physical signals that seem to be universal enough to somewhat judge your date's interest or lack there of in you. They are feeling your vibe if there is good eye contact, leaning in, relaxed posture, open hands, warm (not suggestive) touching, moderate amounts of nodding while you are speaking, mirroring and or synchronization of each other's behavior. The elements of body language are signs of two people being comfortable with each other, their on the same wave length and wanting to learn more about each other. Negative signs include compulsive nodding, hands on the mouth, arms crossed or behind the head, and of course, yawning. Most of these are all signs that your date has started to tune out and are not sharing their true feelings. Now be careful and don't become obsessed with analyzing all of your date's physical behaviors because then you won't be fully there with them in the moment, and you'll really start noticing some negative behaviors. The amazing reality of it all is how much truthful information your date will tell you themselves. You just have to be listening. It is easier said than done to fully listen to what and how someone is saying something. You must release the impulse to transform what they are saying into what you want to hear, and the desire to be thinking of your witty come back and cut them off. Just listen take everything in and then react. If you jump in too soon you are going to be losing some vital information and also most likely really pissing off your date. Sincerity goes miles farther than cleverness any day. 
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